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Topic: Ponderings
If you know me well, you know that I love purple. The color purple has always been powerful for me and I've loved every shade of purple since I was very young. The moment I moved out of my mother's house, away from the pink nightmare that was my room, I made everything purple and black that I owned.
In the 5th grade, I was attending Walgrove Ave elementary school and had Ms. Scott as my teacher. I didn't have any super close friendships in elementary school which I chalk up to a few things.
- I started at the school in 2nd grade rather than starting in Kindergarten because I attended Montessori School
- I didn't live in the immediate area of the school. My grandmother did, and my mother used my grandmother's address so I could go there rather than attending Shenandoah Elementary. At the time we lived on Hargis St. off of Robertson right near Hamilton High School, but my mother wanted me to go to Walgrove. So, I didn't get to play with anybody after school in the neighborhood around my elementary, and thus knew none of the children in the neighborhood where I lived.
- When I finally did make close friendships, my mother moved me to another school. Alison Banks and I were close in 2 and 3rd grade, but then I moved in the middle of 3rd grade to Braddock Elementary (which I hated). I was only there for like two or three months and then my mother put me back at Walgrove.
- I was different because I had special reading classes to address my dyslexia.
Anyway, there were a few people I liked and got along with and shared common interests with in elementary school. One of those who I bonded with was Tyeshaia Donaldson. She loved purple as much as I did. So, we made "The Purple Club". She said something to me about purple when I wore it in fourth grade for our class picture. I wore a purple turtle neck which I just loved to pieces. It was one of the only purple pieces of clothing my mother let me have. I remember it clearly. We were playing foursquare and it was rather warm, and I was wearing the purple turtleneck. I was getting hot and sweaty, and she asked me why I wore the turtleneck on such a hot day. I told her it was the only purple thing I owned and my mother let me pick my own clothing for the first time for a class picture. I immediately had chosen the purple turtleneck without a second thought it was going to be 80 degrees or more. Tyeshia had laughed and said she understood and that she loved purple that much too.
Well, Tyeshia and I started "The Purple Club" and we wore purple every Thursday in 5th grade. It was really cool to bond with someone, and I am sure we would have become closer if my mother didn't remove me from Walgrove and send me to Westminster Academy in the 6th grade. My mother wanted me to back to private school and had found Westminster for my 6th and 7th grade years. She also didn't want me to go to Mark Twain Jr. High, but to Marina del Rey Jr. High. It made for very broken relationships in my early years jumping around to all those schools.
Montessori - Kindergarten & 1st grade
Walgrove Elementary - 2nd & part of 3rd
Braddock Elementary - part of 3rd
Walgrove Elementary - 4th & 5th grade
Westminster Academy - 6th & 7th
Marina del Rey Jr. High - 8th & 9th
Venice High - 10th- 12th
Due to all these jumps in schools, I met a wide array of people, and really didn't bond with friends until 8th grade. Kim, Emily, Stacy, Chrissy, Lisa - these were my first close friends I bonded with at Marina. Still, I'll never forget Tyeshia Donaldson and "The Purple Club" we started together back in 5th grade. She'll always have a special place in my heart.